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[\/vc_column_text][\/vc_column][\/vc_row][vc_row][vc_column][vc_column_text]Medin\u00eb Dauti (intervistuesja)<\/p>\n

Sanije Nexhepi (e intervistuara)<\/p>\n

Akronimet:MD: Medin\u00eb Dauti, SN= Sanije Nexhipi<\/p>\n

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MD: Pyetja e par\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb qysh e kujton periudh\u00ebn para luft\u00ebs, para se me fillu lufta, para se me u largu?<\/p>\n

SN: Po, para luft\u00ebs 1 jav\u00eb para se me ra NATO kan\u00eb ardh\u00eb na kan\u00eb lajmru neve serbt\u00eb, kan\u00eb than\u00eb ikni prej katunit se na nuk kena siguri, nuk mujna me ju siguru, se i kena pas na n\u00eb katun serbt, edhe s\u2019kena siguri edhe patjet\u00ebr duhet me ik\u00eb katuni. Na mrena javes kan\u00eb ardh\u00eb rasti pi llofces, te koka e Trillovs jan\u00eb myt\u00eb dy vet, te kokajt jan\u00eb myt\u00eb dy vet\u00eb, do kan\u00eb ardh\u00eb t\u00eb plagost\u00eb n\u00eb Bilinice me u sheru, tana n\u00eb krye t\u00eb javes kena ik\u00eb me traktora krejt.<\/p>\n

Jena nis\u00eb neper mal, Rohovic\u00eb, Preshev\u00eb edhe kena shku n\u00eb zon\u00ebn neutrale.<\/p>\n

N\u00eb zon\u00ebn neutrale aty kena nejt tri dit\u00eb. Jena kan\u00eb gati 2000 veta a 3000 po.<\/p>\n

Llojant edhe Presheva \u00e7ka kan\u00eb mujt\u00eb me na pru buk me hanger, na kan\u00eb pru ushqime t freskta krejt\u00eb, me speca me pogaqa me kolica kan\u00eb bajt\u00eb na e kan\u00eb pru ushqimin me hang\u00ebr.<\/p>\n

Vishin n\u00eb mbramje, na i kan\u00eb pru najllanat disa shatora vishin hajdeni se po nisen autobusat, po lshohet kufiri. Tamon\u00eb dojshum me dal, na kthejshin kthenu se spo lan\u00eb ata Makedont. Nuk na lejshin me hi. 3 dit\u00eb e 3 net\u00eb na kemi nejt\u00eb n\u00eb zon\u00eb neutrale. Ka pas\u00eb gra, ka pas\u00eb f\u00ebmi, ka pas\u00eb t\u00eb s\u00ebmur\u00eb, ka pas\u00eb gra shtat\u00ebzane, edhe mas tri nete n\u00eb ora 12 t\u00eb nat\u00ebs kan\u00eb ardh\u00eb autobusat e na kan\u00eb marr\u00eb.<\/p>\n

Edhe nafaka familja komplet s\u2019jena shpernda hiq, jena hyp me ni autobus jena kan\u00eb na 11 vet\u00eb, an\u00ebtar\u00eb t\u00eb familjes teme, jena hyp\u00eb me ata n\u00eb autobus na kan\u00eb qu n\u00eb shkoll\u00eb t\u00eb Vojanit.<\/p>\n

Aty edhe kan\u00eb hi Makedont na kan\u00eb marr\u00eb n\u00eb pyetje, qaq sa na jena kan\u00eb qaq t\u00eb hupt\u00eb, vllavi jem i madhi as fmive nuk ja u dike dat\u00eblindjet, i ka pas 4 fmi vllavi jem i madhi. Edhe e marrshin n\u00eb pyetj\u00eb qysh i kan\u00eb fmia dat\u00eblindjet, ai qaq u hup ma edhe nuk ja u dike as dat\u00eblindjet.<\/p>\n

Na kan\u00eb majt aty me than\u00eb nja 4 or\u00eb, deri n\u00eb 5 t\u00eb mengjesit n\u00eb shkoll\u00eb t\u00eb Vojanit. N\u00eb shkoll\u00eb t\u00eb Vojanit ka ardh\u00eb ni djal\u00eb i ri na ka vjedh\u00eb, tinza makedon\u00ebve. Krejt\u00eb ka nja ka nja na ka qit\u00eb edhe na ka hyp n\u00eb kerr na ka qu n\u00eb shpi t\u00eb vet. Edhe kur jena shku na n\u00eb at\u00eb shpijen, aj shpijen e re veq sa e kish maru na e ka qel deren, na e ka pru ni kant\u00eb uj\u00eb edhe durt.<\/p>\n

Kur jena hi, ni kusheri i joni aty, rasisht e kena zatet me gjith\u00eb grujen, baba jem bash djal\u00eb t mixhes.<\/p>\n

MD: Aha<\/p>\n

SN: Ai me gru, me re me dy nipa edhe kena nejt na aty 3 dit\u00eb na kan\u00eb majt n\u00eb Vojan, edhe na kan\u00eb pru me hanger na kan\u00eb marr\u00eb n\u00eb mengjes krejt ato shpiat me ren\u00eb na kan\u00eb qu me u pastru, na kan\u00eb pru tesha, na i kan\u00eb\u00eb marr\u00eb teshat na i kan la. Mas 3 dite hajde po shkojmi po na qojn\u00eb n\u00eb Hotel. Hotla komun\u00eb t\u00eb Kumanoves thirret, ka ardh\u00eb na ka marr\u00eb aj i zoti i shpijes Fati Zendeli o kan\u00eb, aj ka ardh na ka marr\u00eb me gjith k\u00ebta ku kena nejt 3 kerre i kena mush\u00eb edhe na kan\u00eb qu n\u00eb Hotel, 3 muj dit\u00eb na kena nejt\u00eb n\u00eb Hotel.<\/p>\n

Edhe ma, sdi sen ma shum\u00eb skom pa tjetersen.<\/p>\n

Aty kena nejt\u00eb na kan\u00eb kqyr shum\u00eb mir\u00eb, jena ni si n\u00eb shpi ton\u00eb, na i kan\u00eb lshu shpijen e re e kan\u00eb pas vet\u00eb kena nejt\u00eb antar\u00ebt e familjes, vet\u00eb kena p\u00ebrgatit. \u00c7ka kan\u00eb mujt\u00eb me na pru me hanger, na kan\u00eb pru tesha, tani mo erdh edhe sociali na i dhashin dysheka, tesha \u00e7ka kan\u00eb mujt\u00eb me pru aty o kan\u00eb veni te shkolla, me shku na me i marr\u00eb. Edhe na kan\u00eb pru veq shum\u00eb mir\u00eb aty kena kapercy 3 muaj dit\u00eb, as sjena kan\u00eb qe .. as sjena kan\u00eb .. p\u00ebr n\u00eb at\u00eb an\u00eb ma shum\u00eb nuk di.<\/p>\n

MD: Okej, qysh ka qen\u00eb p\u00ebrvoja e largimit prej shpis\u00eb?<\/p>\n

SN: Shum\u00eb e ran\u00eb, shum\u00eb e rand\u00eb se me dal kena lanen 3 frym\u00eb gja, kena lan\u00eb gati 40 pula, ato jan\u00eb kan\u00eb me shpirt. Kena lan\u00eb krejt\u00eb pa ushqim pa kurgja o kan\u00eb shum\u00eb e rand\u00eb, edhe na kan\u00eb p\u00ebrcejll\u00eb edhe seb\u00ebt, dmth jan\u00eb kan\u00eb serbet mas neve , per mos me na prek paramilitart\u00eb na kan\u00eb mbrojten. Veq ran\u00eb se na nuk e kena dit\u00eb as ku po na qojn\u00eb, se na nuk e dishim ku jem\u00eb tu shku, a jem\u00eb tu shku n\u00eb mal, na mur\u00ebm ushqimin, mur\u00ebm dysheka me vete, 200 killa mill\u00eb, gjalp, pasul krejt\u00eb tengjeret en\u00eb i mor\u00ebm me vete na si po shkojm\u00eb n\u00eb mal, po rrim\u00eb 3-4 dit\u00eb edhe kthehemi, veq kur na kan\u00eb qu n\u00eb Preshev\u00eb kur e kena kapercy udh\u00ebn p\u00ebr me shku n\u00eb zon\u00ebn neutrale paramilitart na kan\u00eb dal aty n\u00eb rrug\u00eb, edhe aty kan\u00eb marr\u00eb \u00e7ka kan\u00eb pas\u00eb gjinja kuleta ja u kan\u00eb lyp\u00eb leternjoftimat, kuletat, v\u00ebllau jem qa ka pas pare me gjith\u00eb kulet\u00eb, me leternjoftim, traktorat na i kan\u00eb marr\u00eb na i kan\u00eb nal\u00eb aty me traktora me ushqim me krejt\u00eb kan\u00eb met\u00eb n\u00eb zon\u00ebn neutrale.<\/p>\n

Edhe tjeter qekaq.<\/p>\n

MD: Okej, \u00eb a t\u00eb kujtohet qysh o kan\u00eb kur jeni kthy n\u00eb shpi?<\/p>\n

SN: Po, kur jena kthy n\u00eb shpi rrafsh 3 muj dit, mas 3 mujve kur jena kthy, kan\u00eb hi serbt kishin demtu, kishin praptu, di\u00e7ka skan\u00eb pas\u00eb me marr, a din\u00eb me vler\u00eb nuk ka pas, veq ske pas qka me gjet, shkret\u00eb o kan\u00eb shpia, ka pas t\u00eb thyme, ni kerr e kena pas qat\u00eb kerrin e kishin pas marre. Gjajen mas ni kohe i kena gjet, na kan\u00eb ardh\u00ebn ku kan\u00eb nejt\u00eb nuk e di, shkret\u00eb. Viran viran ske pas ku me hi prej shkretit, se shpi pa gjin, derat e qelta krejt\u00eb krahum-krah, viran\u00a0 kan\u00eb praptu viran o kan\u00eb shpia.<\/p>\n

MD: \u00c7far\u00eb efekti menon q\u00eb ka pas lufta n\u00eb p\u00ebrgjith\u00ebsi te populli ose te ju personalisht?<\/p>\n

SN: P\u00ebr k\u00ebt\u00eb pyetje s\u2019di \u00e7ka t\u00eb tham.
\nMD: Qysh po menon q\u00eb ka ndiku kshtu, a o kan\u00eb e ran\u00eb a e keni kalu ma leht\u00eb, a menon q\u00eb hala ka ndikim qajo periudh\u00eb?<\/p>\n

SN: Pasojat a?<\/p>\n

MD: Po pasojat.<\/p>\n

SN: Pasojat p\u00ebr momentin te une kur um kujtohet rasti se kena nejt\u00eb n\u00eb at\u00eb zon\u00ebn neutrale, un\u00eb qata e di ma t\u00eb rand\u00ebsishmen qata e di p\u00ebr vetveten.<\/p>\n

Se nat\u00eb, terr burg, mal 3000 vet\u00eb me kan\u00eb aty, qent\u00eb kufinit lehshin aty mezi skom\u00eb marr\u00eb trauma qaty kam\u00eb pshtu.<\/p>\n

Qaty e kom\u00eb ni veten mas keqti, jena kan\u00eb 11 vet\u00eb t\u00eb familjes, 11 antar kena flejt\u00eb n\u00eb ni najllon, shator hesapi e kur i nijsha qent\u00eb tu leh une qatu mezi skom\u00ebmarr trauma kom\u00eb pshtu se mu doke qe po vin\u00eb po na presin, se diten kur i pam\u00eb na paramilitar\u00ebt rrug\u00ebs tani ma qatu pak un\u00eb jom\u00eb friku ama kom\u00eb pshtu, trauma skom\u00eb marr\u00eb, skom\u00eb pa di\u00e7ka shum\u00eb t\u00eb ran\u00eb qe per me pas trauma.<\/p>\n

E kom\u00eb pa ni rast qe ka ardh prej Kokajt, ni djal\u00eb i ri i ka pas\u00ebn 18 vjet\u00eb me gjak\u00eb, te do kojshi tont\u00eb, qata e kom\u00eb pa \u00e7ka a e din\u00eb si, kan\u00eb than\u00eb erdh erdh erdh prej kukajt, e kishin plagos. Qata e kom\u00eb pa, edhe qat\u00eb momentin e kom\u00eb ni tep\u00ebr r\u00ebnd\u00eb si m\u00eb ka ardh keq kur e kom\u00eb pa n\u00eb qat\u00eb moment djal i ri, po aj ka dasht\u00eb Zoti u sheru, edhe jeton\u00eb n\u00eb Amerik\u00eb aj djali.<\/p>\n

MD: Faleminderit.<\/p>\n

SN: InshaAllah t\u00eb kryn\u00eb pun\u00eb qeta.[\/vc_column_text][\/vc_column][\/vc_row]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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